Author name: Becka Asper

Becka is married, mom to six bio kids and usually an extra kid or two through foster care, an author, youth leader for a group of Congolese refugees, and a renovator. Her aim is to not let her life get sucked into the American dream - but to let it be reclaimed and salvaged for God's glory.

God-thoughts Mommyhood Reclaimed Perspective

Reclaimed Perspective: Finding Joy on the Gray Days

God-thoughts Mommyhood Reclaimed Perspective

Reclaimed Perspective: Heaven Came Down

culture gratitude Hospitality Poverty YoungLives

Thank You, Starfish-Throwers!

Who is a difference-maker in your life that deserves some thanks? So many “little” things that regular ol’ people like you and me do unexpectedly impact attitudes, atmospheres, and situations in huge ways.

God-thoughts Reclaimed Perspective reconciliation

Reclaimed Perspective: Wielding Your Wisdom

Good Books Reclaimed Perspective reconciliation

Reclaimed Perspective: Why I Don’t Want to Be Colorblind

You would never use just one word to define a place, or a historical figure, or a feeling, or a food, or even another word. It would be completely inadequate. You might say “tasty”… and then you add, “But the lemon flavor is a little too overpowering.” Or you might say “bored”… but then you would say, “Because I miss my friend who is away on a trip.” And although some of our personal culture and identity are tied to the words “black” and “white”, these words are incomplete when used as the sole definition of a human being.

God-thoughts Teen Moms YoungLives

I wrote a book and a half!

God-thoughts Good Books Reclaimed Life

A Reclaimed Life: Compassion That Wasn’t Disconnected from Behavior

Foster Care

When Foster Care Feels Scary.

It is a scary thing to say “yes” to taking in a child you’ve never met and know very little about. When the call comes, and the only thing the voice on the other end knows is the child’s age and gender. Nothing about interests, behaviors, dislikes, personality… no pictures, no stories. Just: “Can you take him?”
It’s the worst blind date scenario.

Foster Care Hospitality Mommyhood

5 ways a Stay-At-Home-Mom can make a difference outside her fingerprint-smudged windows

God-thoughts reconciliation

Reclaimed Perspective: Living With Other People’s Failures

Can I be honest with you without you judging me? Ah well, I’ll just be honest with you and let you do with it as you will. Because this is about me, not you. You probably don’t deal with this problem.
Here is my honest confession: I routinely get wrapped up in other people’s issues.

God-thoughts Poverty reconciliation Refugee Crisis

Today, I heard stories.

God-thoughts Mommyhood Reclaimed Perspective Spending Less

Reclaimed Perspective: The “More” Monster

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